In this post, I will unravel the secret code which any woman could make use of to discern if her man truly loves her.
In a relationship, where the man and woman are involved most time the women are always the victim, I will tell you why.
From the beginning, women were made weaker vessels who depends on the men for support. Love is supposed to flow from the man down to the woman and not the other way around.
When a man says the “L” word (“I Love You”), the rate of dopamine released in a female is higher than that of the male when stimulated. This implies that the female reacts most positively to Love stimuli than the male.
To ascertain if your man truly loves you, to avoid getting emotionally hurt, I have laid out a few measures to go which include:
- If he uses a password on his phone ask him for the code and if he refuses, then that’s a red flag.
- Ask him for his passwords to his social media handles and wait for his response. This should tell what he is keeping away from you.
- If his friends are more female than male, it’s a red flag which indicates that he most likely is a womanizer.
- If you do not call to visit him before now, all of a sudden he strongly demands that you call before visiting; this simply means that he is powerfully cheating on you ( you’d better run).
On a more serious note:
This is for those with a bold heart, and you need to go to this extent to deduce what your man is up to and what he thinks of you.
- If he doesn’t use a condom during your sexual intercourse with him but of a sudden, he suggests this method; just know already that he’s fed up and probably has another woman to replace you.
- Prank him with a pregnancy result and hear what he has to say. If he denies being responsible then you can already read the handwriting on the wall (I say to you “RUN” or else you become a victim).
Although every relationship is not meant to end in marriage, truth be told, women practically end up being used especially if the breakup came from the man.
This further explains why the hurt of a relationship breakup hunts the female whereas the male goes about their businesses because they have nothing to lose.
When pregnancy occurs in such a toxic relationship, the man runs denying his responsibilities leaving the woman to shoulder it all, this is because:
- The man doesn’t get pregnant and carry it around for 9 months
- The male’s sexual organ is made up of elongated muscles and not a hollow hole in which the depth could be used to tag a female as sexually active or not.
- The man sees it as a normal thing to have as many women as possible outside matrimonial whereas it’s taboo for a female.
This is the reason the women should sit up and stay positive, and demand an explanation when something seems off in their relationship. Don’t wait until you become a victim of a toxic relationship before you would learn. A man who deserves the submission of a woman is that who respects women and this he should start with his mother. A man who adores his mother will pass this on to his woman.